[GOX9-SPELPWF1P2PT] no conection to server one one of my chars

trying to login to my sorc that was doing the prideholm demon event/quest but got the [[GOX9-SPELPWF1P2PT] msg and the game exited and same happens if i try to login again.
But i can login on my gunslinger no problem and if i try to hotswap char from my gunslinger to my sorc i get the msg and the game exits

After what i would assume is the “afk long enough to get kickd” i think i could login again OR
i skipped the prolog on my alt and was then able to switch character to my main the sorc and it worked