“If everyone is super, no one is.” This quote is apropos given all the discussion about Lost Ark being pay-to-win with the release of Argos. So, let’s face a harsh truth together - most of the population playing MMOs is not super. Not you. Certainly not me. The belief you are capable of God-like play, and that all that stands between you being number one is getting great gear, is a fallacy that has been sold to you.
The average gamer shouldn’t care about whether or not a game system is pay-to-win or entirely equalized. The reason is thus: neither ecosystem will result in the average player being “super.” In an equalized, entirely skill based environment, most players will still be average. The percentage of players skilled enough to belong on an e-sports team is very, very small. Similarly, the percentage of players wealthy enough to afford progression is very, very small. Neither system cares about you. More than 90% of us are just middling regardless of how a game is funded.
Just like the real world, your averageness is being leveraged to make those who rise to the top feel good about themselves. You are a NPC for the highly-skilled and the wealthy. When you take a subset of humanity and thrust it into a video game, you’re going to find that you experience the same socioeconomic issues - because this is what humanity is, as a whole, at this point in time.
Its important that individuals understand their limitations and how people rise to the top, because how another person gets to the top shouldn’t be how you weigh your own achievements. You can be average and still find pleasure in your own successes. You can play a game and beat a boss and feel like it was tough but you triumphed and made a new memory. That’s how Dark Souls has risen in popularity.
My point is this - since you will never be the top player of any MMO you play unless you are God-tier skilled - why does it matter how someone got to 1400? It doesn’t. There are so many average people playing Lost Ark that are collecting Mokoko Seeds or running Abyss Dungeons or grinding for mounts that the 1% that got ahead of you DO. NOT. MATTER. Thinking they matter is a mistake because you’re forgetting that over 90% of the people playing this game are just like you.
So, since neither system cares about you because this is how the world works, perhaps focus on what does matter - which is making friends, joining a guild, or enjoying content at your own pace and having fun. When you stop caring about being on top because you never were going to be on top to begin with, it frees you to enjoy YOUR life. You can enjoy this game with the people just like you, just like you do in the real world. You can take the gearing process slowly and find a guild of like-minded people to grind with. Or, you can continue to bemoan what the world is, believe that somehow you’ll manage to be super, fill it with negativity which will not change the nature of Lost Ark being P2W, and be unhappy. It’s your choice.
I’m sitting at 1320 and enjoying selling my materials to whales who are funding my future upgrades. Thanks whales.