So im missing this Skill, its blocked off and i dont know why or how to get it back?
Any ideas?
reflux engraving blocks it
Damn
How do i get it back? 
Go to the engravings screen in character page and check which accesory is giving you + reflux points and swap it for something else.
Also on char screen make sure the bottom left two are not reflux
Awsome!
Thank you very much!